HONESTY OF FRIENDSHIP

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As what most writers wrote and says about the word HONESTY they always tell it is a controversial topic especially when we talk about friendships.In our life each of one has a bestfriend and closefriend whom we feel to share openly with our thoughts or asking opinions regarding the things that we feel concious. well, telling the truth or being open to your closefriend or best friend is one of the cornerstone and when is the certain facts or information being tactful and when is it dishonest? the biggest issues between friendships is how to deal or handle problems within a friendship.

Honesty in friendship relation runs a lot deeper thatn just commenting on anything what you have seen. It has to do with how or not you share to your friend or your friend can share your feelings with each other including your thoughts, opinions and dreams. There has to be a limits regarding the things you speak openly and honestly without being laughed such as what you have shared passed along to others without your permission. then another thing that writer wrote on his book or says if trust and honesty are most important factors in a close friend, being able to keep secrets is next. Another assets or factor to maintain friendship is confidentiality of self-disclosures, entrusted by friend as a way of sharing of private and privileged information, is not the same thing as keeping a dangerous secret that puts that friend or others in jeopardy. Unfortunately, the friend who hears the secret may then feel burdened by the information that he or she has learned.

But the secret that was shared is sacred and meaningful to the friend, when sharing that secret with others without permission, violets the loyalty and respect for privacy that is traditionally a cornerstone of friendship.


why is a friend choosen? A connection has to occur almost like a chemical reaction. It is the friendship version of that feeling in your heart and your entire being, that there is something about this person that clicks with you, whether your similar or opposite, whether you shared the same interest or have contrasting interest.